Milestone Birthday Parties - Too Much?
My mother loves parties. She loves to give them, and she loves to go to them. And we are always expected to give her a birthday party of some sort.
For her 50th, my father rented a beautiful room at a hotel for a sit down dinner. We surprised her with friends and family from out of town, who stayed at the hotel, and made a weekend out of it.
For her 60th, we rented the most gorgeous casino suite and and invited a lot of people who came for the day and night, again with many out of towners staying overnight. This was a fabulous party, as the suite was over the top and amazing.
Now, it is her 65th birthday in a few months. My sister and I are sort of perplexed as to what to do.
Do we throw another big party, or is it too soon after the last one? Do we wait until her 70th? Or is life just too short, and because she loves parties and surprises so much, we spoil her with another one?
I usually do not get too personal here, well - maybe I do now and again, but I need help from those not involved to see how you feel.
My thoughts go toward the family and friends from a far. I hate to put a strain on them, as many are getting older as well, and travel may not be feasible. Do we just do up a big soiree and hope many decide to come, or do we throw a little extra special party at home with just family and friends that are local.
I would love your thoughts! If it were you, what party would you like?
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2 opinions for Milestone Birthday Parties - Too Much?
carlene
Jan 24, 2008 at 9:07 pm
Oh, hi, I just found your blog tonight! I think, since you say she loves to throw parties, you might skip the surprise this time and plan it together with her and your sister. I think planning a party all together like that might make some lovely memories. Just a thought!
(Oh, and a little travel every 5 years is not too much travel in my book!)
Goji Juice Grace!
Jan 28, 2008 at 1:35 am
If I were her, and I loved parties, I’d absolutely adore a large get together! I also think what the previous commenter mentioned is a great idea too. - Planning it with her could be a fun and unique twist on the usual!
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